Journal — Day 1 of a female climber

Tais Takehara
3 min readDec 26, 2023

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Lots of snow in Saulgrub, Germany, It was a cold day in 2018, and right beside our xmas holiday cabin, there was a climbing gym.

For someone coming from Brazil, seeing that place filled with colorful little holds on the wall was so beautiful. We don’t have those gyms back there… at least I hadn’t seen any until then. To me, that wasn’t even a gym; it was a space to play… I had already been to two gyms in Milan, Zero Gravity and Urban Wall, which I also thought were just for fun. It hadn’t crossed my mind that they were places for training.

Climbing gym in Saulgrub, Germany

Felipe, my husband, fell in love for this sport. I felt nothing, unfortunately. He then started training, bought books, and binge watched climbing videos on youtube.

Rock Climbing Training book & Training for climbing

Not even the pandemic stopped him from practicing.

Felipe was a gym climber because he had no one to help him. How would he climb real crags without a belayer? Here's a picture of La Carolina bridge climbing in Spain in Feb 2022, and Felipe and Lasagna, our dog, sadly walking without anyone to belay him.

La Carolina bridge climbing

In December 2022, 4 years later, Felipe asked if I wold be willing to take a course to become his belayer. We were in Cagliari and the chosen gym was S'avanzada https://g.co/kgs/GKmViF a tiny little gym in Sardinia island.

3 days later I officially became a belayer!

S'Avanzada Climbing gym — belayer course

Since then our weekends are filled with amazing new crags, hiking, and breathtaking landscapes.

The question I always get from friends and other climbers is: "when are you going to start climbing, Tais?"

Well, 25th Dec 2023 I decided it was time to become a climber. Why? Because some days earlier Felipe said "For sure that that climber's girlfriend is a climber, Tais… nobody who climbs 8A would have a non-climber girlfriend. Belaying is an annoying task and she would be bored if she didn't climb." And indeed, belaying is super boring… you are there for 2 or 4 hours just handling the rope, bearing with the wind, cold, sun, sweating without spending any energy, just waiting for the time to finally pack and go home.

Yesterday I climbed my first crag! And I loved it! 5 years it took me to make a decision. Is it too late? Well, I'm not really worried… I just want it to last. I will start practicing, training, and wish to become stronger through the time to reach higher levels!

Tais climbing at Cava Usai — Sardegna

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Tais Takehara

Mineirinha, do mundo, empreendedora, apaixonada por gente e bichos. Consultora especialista em ensino de inglês e tecnologia da educação.